Dee Hurtle

By Julie Overholt

Hi ladies,

It is a privilege for me to be able to type out another interview for you all to get to know another fellow sister in Christ at Sugar Grove Church.  This month we will be meeting Dee Hurtle! So plug in the Christmas tree, grab a hot drink, and sit down by the fire (under a blanket, with your warm socks on) :) and listen in as Dee shares her story…  

Dee grew up at Sugar Grove and has been attending for 79 years! Her parents were members of the church and they attended regularly. She has been very active in church ministries over the years, including serving as a youth counselor with her late husband Chuck, teaching the 2-3 yr. old class with Sue Fields for 20+ years, serving on many women’s committees, and volunteering in the nursery. Presently, Dee serves as head of the kitchen (If you’ve ever eaten a meal served from the SGC kitchen you will certainly understand why she is in this position!), works in the Awana program, sends out material for the Home Department, and works in the Tabitha Circle.

Dee became widowed four years ago after almost 56 years of marriage, when her beloved husband Chuck passed away from cancer. “He was a great husband, father, and grandfather. He loved the Lord and we had a wonderful marriage.” Chuck and Dee went to Concord High School together and were neighbors as well. He also was a friend to Dee’s brother. “He wanted to date me, but I didn’t want to because my whole family wanted me to date him as well.” :) Chuck and Dee graduated from high school and Chuck again asked Dee for a date. Dee accepted, and says that after the first date she never turned back – as they became friends first, and then fell in love. They were married in the old Sugar Grove Church building.

When I asked Dee what helped to keep love alive in their marriage she said that they enjoyed doing things together. “I also loved doing special things for him. As well as trust, love, communication, and always being there for one another.” They were unable to have children of their own, but God blessed them with two children by adoption. Scott and his wife Deb live in North Vernon, IN, and a daughter Karla, who lives in Goshen.  Dee is also blessed with three grandchildren – Brock, Malory, and Jadyn. “Children and grandchildren are wonderful. Our family had lots of fun and have many good memories.”

Dee grew up on a farm just 1 ½ miles from SGC. She had one sister and six brothers. “We had a very interesting and busy life on the farm. We all had jobs to do. The boys worked on the farm and milked cows. My sister Carol and I gathered eggs, worked in the garden, and did housework. My brothers were all basketball players for Concord, where we all went to school. My dad was our bus driver.” Dee was very active in extracurricular activities during her school years. Something you may not know about Dee is that she had the lead part in both her junior and senior class plays in high school.  She played the clarinet in the band, was a cheerleader, was the editor for the school newspaper, worked in the school bookstore, and also won the Citizenship Award. After graduation, Dee began her first job in the office at Elkhart Brass. She then went to the factory of C.T.S. in Elkhart, before becoming the manager of the Concord Community Schools cafeteria for 30 years. She retired from this position in 1999, then taking over the kitchen at SGC. “I love doing it!”

Dee shared that she was very fortunate to have special people in her life that pointed the way to Christ as she grew up. “A very special lady, who’s name was Madge Lockwood, was in charge of Jr. Church. She was a very loving, caring, good Christian lady, who taught me a lot and made us as children feel very special. We attended Jr. Church while our parents were in the church service. We sang songs, learned Bible verses, and Mrs. Lockwood gave the Bible story.

"The invitation to accept Jesus was given often, so I knew the plan of salvation. I also had a couple other great Sunday School teachers, Christine and Frank Lynn. They were caring and very helpful and taught me many things. Also, Rev. C.S. Priest was my pastor and he gave the invitation to be saved many times, but I didn’t respond. Back then, when an invitation was given, you were to go forward in front of all the people and I had a fear of doing that. I thought I was a good person, but I knew you couldn’t get to Heaven by good works.

"Years ago we would have an evangelist come to hold meetings each night for one week. When I was a teenager, Rev. Veneroff came for these meetings. He was very interesting and got me to thinking. He gave an invitation at the beginning of the week, but I didn’t respond. During the week I was really being convicted and when he gave another invitation, I went forward and accepted Jesus Christ as my Savior. What a great peace came over me! I am so thankful for Sugar Grove Church, which has always preached from the Word of God. They always have, and still are! That is why I’m still here. Praise God.”

Some verses that are especially meaningful to Dee include:

Proverbs 3:5-6

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.

Psalm 37:5

Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him and He will do this.

Philippians 4:6

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

“These verses help me commit, trust, and remember to always pray about things.”

In her spare time, Dee enjoys reading and knitting. She also makes mints for showers, weddings, graduations, or parties. Her favorite holiday is Christmas because it is Jesus’ birthday. She also loves the hustle and bustle of shopping, the beautiful lights, glistening snow, and the Christmas music.

Quick Questions:

What is the best part about being a woman? That God made me this way! I also love being a mother and grandmother.

What makes you laugh? Happy people, people with a good sense of humor.

Three words to describe yourself: Loving, caring, and giving.

Shy or outgoing? Outgoing

Tomboy or princess? Tomboy

Coffee or tea? Coffee

Oceanside or mountainside? Oceanside

The perfect meal? Olive Garden

Worst food ever? Oysters

Morning person or night owl? Both!

I’d love to travel to: Hawaii

Listen, read, or watch to learn? Listen and watch

Favorite Bible character? Paul

3 Things that bring peace to your life and/or help you relax? Reading the Word, reading books, and helping others.

Thank you Dee, for sharing your life with us and for serving the people of SGC so faithfully!

And ladies, may the Good News of Great Joy come to your hearts and fill you in a special way this Christmas season.

Luke 2:10-11

But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; He is Christ the Lord.”

Julie

Rolonda Graber

By Julie Overholt

The Graber family

Hi ladies!

Seasons come and go so quickly! I am currently sitting here typing this in my warm and comfy clothes, with warm socks on my feet and a fuzzy blanket over me. Chilly weather and falling leaves mean it’s time to meet a new friend from SGC! :) I am happy to introduce you to Rolonda Graber. 

Rolonda and her family have been attending Sugar Grove for close to three years.  Their family first began to become acquainted with SGC through several of the programs offered here. Within a few months' time, Rolonda joined a Beth Moore women’s Bible study, began bringing a son to AWANA, and a daughter started attending Crossfire. They eventually visited on a Sunday morning, loved the worship, and felt Pastor Rick’s sermons were great. It didn’t take long for them to commit and begin attending regularly.

Rolonda has been involved with the First Impressions team, enjoys working in the café, and just recently has become involved with the women’s ministry team. “I love to make other people feel special. It excites me when I can figure out someone’s love language and then get to bless them in that way. I have always loved the diversity we women can bring and am excited to be a part of the women’s ministry team. I see and hear often, the many hurts and struggles we all have. I feel it helps when we can share these things and in turn be there for each other. My hope is that we can bond together and build each other up through spending time together and just having some fun.” 

Rolonda was raised in Middlebury, living on the same farm and growing up in the same house that her father grew up in. She met her husband Ted at a friend’s house at the end of her senior year in high school. They dated for about a year, until Rolonda moved to Florida. She lived there for a year-and-a-half and found herself drawn to Ted each time she visited home. She ended up moving back to be with him and they have celebrated twenty years of marriage together.

Ted and Rolonda have been blessed with four children: 18 year old twin daughters, Alexis and Kelsey; and two sons, Conner – who is 15 yrs., and Jackson – who is 11 years old.  Their family has undergone a huge transition this year with their girls graduating high school and leaving home. Kelsey is attending Bethel College in Mishawaka, and Alexis is in Fiji doing a gap year program. “It’s been a huge adjustment for me! I miss them a lot and miss having my whole family under my roof every night, but I’m happy for them and the things that are ahead of them.”

Family is important to the Grabers. Ted and Rolonda each come from a family of six and now live within a few miles of all but one of the siblings. She loves having so many cousins close by for her kids to grow up with!

Rolonda has loved being able to spend most of the last eighteen years as a stay at home mom. She has always said it is/was the hardest, and best job she’s ever had! She recently has started working part time at a home health care agency called Firefly. Working as a home care giver, she goes into different homes and helps with the daily care of people who have a hard time living alone, but aren’t yet ready to go into a nursing home. “I have really been enjoying it! It’s been rewarding to help make their lives easier and brighter. I have been feeling it’s my ministry right now as I try to talk with them about my faith when I can – reminding them how special they are and how much God loves them.”

Rolonda grew up in a Mennonite church and was baptized when she was twelve years old. “I got off-track for a number of years in my late teens and learned some hard lessons. As I started having children, I felt Him drawing me back to Him and I really started searching. I got invited to a Bible Study Fellowship class and began to learn so much. Things started to become so clear, and I understood things like I never had before. I developed a love for Bible studies and have attended many through the years. God created His word to work in so many different ways and it amazes me how the Word of God is so living and active. You can read the same verse so many times and yet still hear something new and different from Him each time it’s read!”

Some (she says she has a lot) of Rolonda’s favorite verses include: Jeremiah 29:11 “I have always claimed this as a verse over my life. It gives me such comfort knowing that God has GOOD plans for me and that I have such a secure hope laid out before me!”  Second Corinthians 12:8 “I love to remind myself often that my weaknesses can be used for His glory by letting His power shine through in these areas. There can then be no doubt that it is Him working!” Philippians 4:13 “Going right along with the theme of weaknesses, when I feel discouraged or insecure at times, I can remind myself that I can do all things through God who gives me strength. I have come a long way in my walk with Him. I have often been scared of trying new things that scare me, where I don’t feel I will succeed, but as I’ve grown, I’m learning to lean on Him. If things don’t work out, I can know that it wasn’t meant to be, and I can move on. As long as I keep Him in the center of my life I can’t go wrong! Ultimately I can 'Trust in the Lord with all of my heart and lean not on my own understanding.'” Proverbs 3:5

When I asked Rolonda who has had a strong influence in her life, she said she would have to say her own father and her grandfather. “They both had a strong love for God and His word, living their lives consistently striving to serve Him faithfully. I would often come downstairs in the morning to see my dad reading His Bible. He was probably the sweetest and most caring man I have ever known. His love for God shone in all areas of his life! He has Alzheimer’s now and is in the end stages, but up until maybe a month ago he was still quoting scripture!”

In her free time, Rolonda says that she is happiest when she is able to be outside.  She loves working in her flower beds, taking walks, camping, reading (although there never seems to be enough time for that lately), and especially loves being anywhere on the water. Their family owns a boat and often spends time at the lake with extended family, enjoying everything there is to do on the water.  "Although, I have to say that springtime is my favorite season. It’s always so exciting for me to get back outside, to see flowers starting to bloom again, and the anticipation of summer coming soon!” Rolonda’s favorite holiday is Christmas. “I love to decorate and the anticipation of what’s to come.  All of the family times together and the celebration and remembrance of the gift God has given us – our Savior!”

What is the best thing about being a woman? And, do you have any advice for young women or mothers? The things I probably love most about being a woman are shopping for ‘girly’ things, wearing jewelry and boots, make-up, scented hand lotions, and I’m also thankful I have hair to curl! :)  I also love being a mom! And I love how women are usually able to share feelings more openly with others and how quickly we can bond with other women. The advice I would give is to forgive quickly. It’s so much easier if you can do this right away! To those who are married, take time to date your husband from the very beginning of your marriage and do it regularly, not matter how busy you get or how hard it is to get away from the kids. To those who have children, ENJOY the time you have with your kids – it really does go so, so quickly!!

Quick questions:

Something people may not know about you? Ted and I had an outdoor wedding my parents' backyard – the house that I grew up in. We left the reception in a hot air balloon with about 200 balloons following us – let go by our guests.

What makes you laugh? Things that probably make me laugh the most are the funny things that   can come out of my kids' mouths, just about everything that my dogs do, (a bulldog named Stella and a Shitzu named Sophie) and honesty from friends about when they do weird things – especially when I can relate. 

Three words to describe yourself? Compassionate, a good listener, and fun-loving

Shy or outgoing? A little of each. I’m an introvert, but love to be around people, too.

Tomboy or princess? A little of each again.  I love girly things, but also love to play and get dirty.

Coffee or tea? Coffee!

Oceanside or mountainside? Oceanside

The perfect meal? Favorite foods? Bonefish Grill. Fresh seafood. Avocadoes. Cilantro. Just about anything seasoned with garlic.

Worst food ever? Liver

Morning person or night owl? Morning person

I’d love to travel to: Anywhere with a beach! Italy!

Listen, read, or watch to learn? Read

Favorite Bible character? Esther. Love the courage she shows!

Three things that bring peace to your life and/or help you relax? Scented candles, flavored coffee, and having the windows open.

Thank you Rolonda, for sharing your heart and life with us, as well as your time - as you serve the women of Sugar Grove!

Julie

Joyce Miller

By Julie Overholt

Maybe you’ve noticed it too? The more I have the privilege of interviewing and writing about the women of SGC, the more I am coming to appreciate how very different we are – in interests, pasts, and giftings! Isn’t is just so neat? I love it – and I love how He draws us all together through unity in Christ! Please join me as we get to know Joyce Miller.

Joyce and her husband Tom have been attending Sugar Grove for approximately eleven years. A year after moving up from Mississippi, they were searching for a good Bible teaching church, similar to the church they had attended in Mississippi, when Becky Troyer invited them to SGC. They were so blessed by Dr. Perdue’s messages, they continued to attend while he was preaching.  Becky, her husband Mike, and family moved to serve the Lord in ministry in Maine, but Joyce and Tom continued on at SGC.

Tom and Joyce have been married for 57 years (!!) and wed at the Silver Street (now Silver Wood) Church with the first snow of November just starting to fall when they left the church. “We met at the 4-H Fair when our Holstein heifers were tied side by side. Tom was so kind, he carried the water pails for me. We didn’t have our first date until four years later. I was then a senior and Tom had just completed his 1-W service at White’s Institute – a correctional facility for children. I believe these two years were the best training, as he was always great in disciplining our children.”

Tom and Joyce lived in Mississippi for 36 years, raising their four children there. Two of their children are now pastors - one in Macon, Mississippi and the other in Meridian, Mississippi. They have a son living in Baltimore, Maryland, working as a salesman and serving as a deacon, as well as a daughter who lives in Pigeon, Michigan, who enjoys being a parish nurse. (“Something our church needs to think about also – it’s a great ministry!”) 

Their children are all in their fifties or near fifty years of age. “I tell them they are in the best years of their lives! You’re free from most of the worries of child raising, and still have a high level of physical energy. While in our fifties, we were able to do our best years of service. We opened our farm to thousands, mostly children. They were able to touch and learn about God’s farm animals. It was my mission to give the children something positive to remember for the day. When a child goes to bed at night and thinks of a good time, sleep will be more peaceful.” 

Tom and Joyce enjoy ten grandchildren and three great-grandsons. About every two years they enjoy the blessings of being together when they rent a camp and spend several days together as a family. Having grown children and now grandchildren, her advice for mothers is to be a mother who will be remembered as a PRAYING mother. “One Mother’s Day, while teaching a five year old Sunday School class, I asked the children to tell me something special that their mother did for them. Of course the usual answers of cooking, reading to me, and playing with me were given, but then one child said, “My mother prays.”

Tom and Joyce continue to work for the Essenhaus. In the summer, Joyce manages the mini golf course, while Tom manages the carriage rides. Then, during the months of October, November, and December, they work together making gift baskets. “We are happiest when we can work – and be – together. Tom has learned to recognize what colors make for attractive basket presentations. Now, he even notices when my clothes match!” :) Then, in the winter months of January through April, they continue to enjoy working together when their small herd of sheep have their lambs.

Joyce grew up in the church and it has always been very important to her. “I remember praying on my knees as a child and talking to God as if He was right there in my room. I do not remember a date when I said, 'Here’s my life, Lord, be my Savior,' but there have been many times when the Lord has been extra close and it is such a wonderful blessing to think of these times. When I have been very lonely in spirit, the Lord has used the song What A Friend We Have In Jesus numerous times. I’ve heard this song on a walk in a park when stopping at a chapel, as well as hearing a chorale singing it. These are just two examples.” 

A verse that is particularly meaningful for Joyce has been from Psalm 19:14: “Let the words of my mouth and meditation of my heart be acceptable in Thy sight, O LORD, my rock and my Redeemer.” When the meditation of her heart and her thoughts are on the Lord, the peace she feels has given her much joy.

Joyce enjoys being in Bible studies that include women from different denominations and in her free time she also enjoys reading and doing Sudoku puzzles. “Yesterday I noticed the first signs of spring flowers starting to appear from under the snow. Flowers are my passion. I like to always have at least one arrangement in the house during the growing season. While living in Mississippi, Tom would often stop along the road or field while working the ground, and bring me a bunch of wildflowers before he mowed them off. I believe the field flowers are the best.”

Some things you may  not know about Joyce include the fact that they had the privilege of mentoring many people in their home and on the farm. They started with Fresh Air boys from inner city Chicago in their first year of marriage. Then there was the time when ten boys got into trouble on their farm. (Really? Boys would do that?) *wink* For punishment, the sheriff made each of them do ten hours of work for Tom and Joyce. Another occupant they housed was a displaced older man from Poland who lived with them for several years. “He had suffered so much.” Many of the teens that they mentored only stayed for several weeks. “Through the years our guests have taught us many things. Each person came with their own issues, and as I reflect back I often think I should have said more to give them a desire to walk closer to our Lord.” 

In addition, something that you may not know about Joyce is while in the business of producing strawberries and blackberries, she had a weekly, fifteen-minute cooking show on TV, with a new recipe for these fruits being presented each week. “This was interesting and fun, but a lot of work! One time we even presented a seven course meal in the field.”

The best thing about being a woman: Being treated like a lady.

            Favorite season: Spring. Remembering our risen Lord at Easter
            time and all the signs of new life.

            What makes you laugh: Wholesome humor.

            Three words to describe yourself: Caring, organized, energetic

            Shy or outgoing: Outgoing

            Tomboy or princess: Princess

            Coffee or Tea: Tea

Oceanside or mountainside: Both! Oceanside while viewing a sunrise or sunset. Mountainside when looking up to see the splendor of God’s creation. “I will lift up my eyes to the mountains; from whence shall my help come? My help comes from the Lord, who made the heaven and earth.” Psalm 121: 1-2

Favorite meal: A meal surrounded with family or friends.

Morning person or night owl: Morning person

Favorite Bible character: Esther – because of her courage. And Mary, the sister of Martha, who chose the better thing by sitting at Jesus’ feet, listening and learning.

What brings peace to your life and/or helps you relax: Sipping a warm cup of milk while reading a good Christian short story.

Thank you, Joyce, for sharing your life with us! 

Ladies, I hope you enjoy the new life that will be springing up all around us in the coming weeks! And may the One who is doing a new thing (Isaiah 43:19) work in all of our hearts to renew our spirits as we encourage each other as sisters in Christ.

Julie

Jayme Yoder

By Julie Overholt

Polar vortexes are brutal, are they not?! Let’s all raise our mugs and teacups and toast to SPRING! ;) It’s coming…

This month I get to introduce you to Jayme Yoder. Jayme and her husband Carlin have been attending Sugar Grove Church for seven years. “What brought us to SGC? The shortest answer is Moise, our adopted son from Haiti. We knew we would eventually leave the Mennonite Church, but procrastinated for many years. When we found out we were going to adopt our son, we didn’t want to establish him in the church we were attending, only to leave later on, since he was already being ripped from his world. We wanted to create as much stability as possible and knew it was high time to get settled. We picked Sugar Grove based off of their theology printed on the SGC website.”

Carlin and Jayme have four children: Caitie (19), Logan (12), Moise (12), and Quinn (8). They lead a Connect Group, and Jayme also serves in the children’s department as a Sunday School teacher. She is currently supporting her husband, Carlin, as he serves on the elder board, as well.

Jayme grew up in Noble County. She and Carlin met on a blind date in high school. “I grew up in a non-Christian home, but I had a Christian grandmother and best friend. My best friend in high school was never ashamed of her faith and answered every question honestly, and showed me what I was missing. I feel God guarded my heart from my father’s non-belief. Seeds were planted throughout my childhood, and I became a Christian my senior year of high school – 21 years ago. I was pregnant and married a few months later.” 

Jayme and Carlin have celebrated 20 years of marriage now, and keep love alive with lots of hand holding and hugs. “I believe God allowed me to get pregnant to completely rip me out of my world/society and put me in church and my husband’s family where I could be mentored, and my faith could flourish. He even used my sin for my good!! My life has never been the same since. I love telling my daughter that she is the best thing that ever happened to me.”

When I asked Jayme if she has any favorite scripture verses, she told me she really doesn’t have a favorite, she loves ALL of it! “The following verses are great though, they make me feel so greatly valued, loved, and cared for!”

Matthew 11:28 Come to me all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.

Matthew 13:46  and upon finding one pearl of great value, he went and sold all that he had and bought it.


Matthew 18:10  See that you do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven.

Jayme is currently the director of The Music and Dance Academy and is also a dance instructor there. Dancing is one of her hobbies/passions. She also enjoys traveling, shopping, home décor, laser tag, photography, Bible study, working, debt reduction, and tax returns ("I love filling them out and tax planning. NOT paying them!")  Jayme is also planning to run her first full marathon this summer.

Her favorite season is Christmas. “It lasts so long! You can use it as an excuse to get together with friends and family, and there are so many gatherings! Décor! Gifts! Traditions! And celebrating Jesus! I love it all!” (The exclamation points aren’t mine, they are Jayme’s. I’d say she loves Christmas.) ;)

Jayme loves being a caretaker and being affectionate with her children. Advice for young mothers? “Enjoy the time you have, it goes fast! Who cares about a clean house with no dents and scratches! They won’t remember or care how clean it was. I love the Dr. Seuss quote, 'There is fun to be done!'"

The best part about being a woman: Fashion! 

What makes you laugh: Comedian Brian Regan and my family (full of corkers).

Three words to describe yourself: Stubborn, results-oriented, and silly.

Shy or outgoing: Outgoing

Tomboy or princess: Both

Coffee or tea: Either

Oceanside or mountainside: Oceanside

The perfect meal: Ruth’s Chris

Worst food ever: Octopus. It tastes just like you would imagine rubber bands taste.

Morning person or night owl: Night owl

I’d love to travel to: Israel

Listen, read, or watch to learn: Listen

Favorite Bible character: Esther

3 Things that bring peace to your life and/or help you to relax: Massage, hot drinks, and Bible Study Fellowship.

Thank you Jayme, for allowing us to get to know you better! May God bless your family abundantly as you continue to serve Him.

May He bless your day, ladies, with something to make you laugh, a sense of His presence, and the hope that comes from knowing spring will be here shortly! 

Julie

Karen Marvel

 By Julie Overholt

Hi ladies! Cabin fever yet?! ;) While you have some extra time inside these days, I hope you enjoy reading another interview from a fellow sister in Christ at SGC! I enjoyed sharing a warm drink with Karen last week as I listened to her answers, and even felt like a journalist with my pen quickly jotting notes as she spoke. It’s the little things… :)

Karen Marvel and her husband Bill have been attending Sugar Grove for the past 7-8 years. They made the decision to begin looking for a new church after attending a very small church that wasn’t experiencing much growth and had very little children’s ministry opportunities, which is one of Karen's passions. Their daughter Tammy and her family were already attending Sugar Grove, and Bill and Karen found a new church home alongside of them. 

Karen recently resigned after serving on the WoW (Women of Worth) leadership team for the past 3 years. (Karen, we thank you for all you have done to help provide fellowship and community for the ladies at SGC!) She has also been serving at the check-in kiosks for children’s ministry on Sunday morning and has been supportive of her husband Bill as he has served as an elder. Karen is currently co-leading the Monday night women’s Bible Study, and is also working with Pastor Matt as the Pre-K director for the children’s ministry department.

Karen grew up in Elkhart and attended the same church as Bill when they were kids. Bill had several years where he walked away from God and church, and it was during this time of absence that Karen became good friends with his sister, who eventually introduced Karen to Bill when she was 15 years old – a sophomore at the time, and Bill a senior. Karen recalled the first time she saw Bill in church and commented to his sister that there was a new, cute guy attending that day. It took a minute for Bill’s sister to locate the person Karen was referring to before she said, “That’s my brother!” :) Bill was pretty shy and Karen remembers that at first he interrupted telephone conversations between Karen and his sister as a way to talk to Karen.  They became high school sweethearts, marrying right out of high school, and on February 16^th will be celebrating 40 years of marriage! “My husband is simply amazing, he really is," Karen told me with a contended sigh. “We have learned it is so important to really make time for each other, which keeps our marriage strong. We also really balance each other out very well.” Karen says she has been asked if she regrets marrying young, and her response has always been, “When you find the best, why keep looking?!”

When I asked Karen about her children and grandchildren, she smiled and said she often wonders how to answer that question. Something you may not know about Karen is that she and her husband Bill have spent many years involved in foster care and still claim quite a few as their own! They have two biological daughters, Tammy - who attends SGC with her husband Aaron and their five children, and Missy – she and her husband have two children. They also have one adopted daughter, Candy, who is married and has three children. Their grandchildren range in age from 1 month old to 18 years of age. Bill and Karen have also fostered 24 children, including being the full-time house parents at the Baptist Children’s Home for five years. There were ten children at the home and they ended up taking five of them into their own home to finish raising them. Karen told me with tears in her eyes, “Tammy and Missy were 17 and 15 years old when we went to work at the children’s home. They were ALWAYS so supportive – calling them siblings to this day – and so loving. We are so blessed to have them as our daughters.” There are eight of those they fostered that they are still in contact with and call “their own.” “It has been such a blessing to be a part of so many kids’ lives over the years. The majority of our foster kids accepted Christ, some went on to attend college, and one is getting ready to go with her family on the mission field! Our two daughters were only 17 months apart, and I remember thinking that the baby and toddler stages would never end. But, they really do go so fast…my encouragement for young mothers is to hang in there! It will end.”

Karen has also been in the teaching profession for 32 years. She has taught from preschool  through first grade, including 10 years as a Pre-K director. She is currently in her fourth year as the preschool teacher at Clinton Christian School.  “My passion is definitely teaching. I have always said even if I wouldn’t get paid to teach, I would still do it. I love it that much.” Karen said she is grateful still for the friend that first voiced to her the gift for children’s ministry that she saw in Karen, a defining moment in Karen's life. “Bill’s parents moved to the Arizona climate for health reasons during our seventh year of marriage. We moved down there as well, living there for seven years. I became good friends with the pastor’s wife and worked as a teachers aide in her classroom. She was the one who saw the gift in me and encouraged me to pursue it.” Children bring the most laughter into Karen’s life as well. “People have told me I need to write a book someday with all the stories I’ve accumulated!” 

Karen was raised in a Christian home, both of her parents being first-generation Christians. “A godly heritage began all because a neighbor invited my parents and their four little children to church!” She herself accepted Christ into her life at 5 years of age while attending the neighborhood Child Evangelism 5- Day Club. Later, at age 15, she confirmed her commitment to God while at a church youth conference. “I realized at that time that not only had He died for my sins, but I understood the importance of, and wanted Him to be the Lord of my life.” 

When I asked Karen if she has any verses that are particularly meaningful to her, she mentioned that she has always struggled with anxiety. “I tend to take on the world’s problems. I care so much for people, and it was a good reminder for me while going through the discipleship class at church to hear that we do have a part, but God also does His part, and others need to do their part as well. I’m not responsible for their part.  I remember my sister (a mentor of mine) telling me once, 'I’m so glad my God is bigger than you.' It was so good for me to hear. God continues to work on that area in my life and I’m thankful for these verses that remind me to trust His direction and that He will never leave me!” 

Isaiah 43:5 Do not be afraid, for I am with you; I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west.

Philippians 4:13 I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.

Joshua 1:9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.

Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.

In her free time Karen enjoys reading and spending time with her grandchildren. “Getting to be a mother and grandmother is what I love most about being a woman. Seeing them walking in Truth and growing is so rewarding!” Karen also enjoys celebrations! “I love all of the holidays, birthdays included, and probably go overboard to celebrate! My own mother enjoyed doing the same. I also celebrate back-to-school, and have always written a note and sent a gift anytime my grandchildren go off to camp as well. There’s always a reason to celebrate.” 

Three words that describe me: Compassionate, merciful to a fault, and anxious.

Outgoing or shy? Naturally shy, but God has put me into positions that have encouraged me to open up.

Coffee or tea? Tea

Tomboy or princess? Somewhere in the middle

Oceanside or mountainside? Oceanside. I LOVE the water. I’ve always said I should have been a mermaid!

Perfect meal/favorite food? For special occasions Bill and I love going to Eddy’s Steakhouse in Granger.

Worst food ever? Fish. (bad aftertaste for me!)

Morning person or night owl? Definitely night owl. Bill is the morning person, so when the grandkids spend the night I stay up late with them and sleep in while Bill gets up and makes them breakfast. 

I’d love to travel to: The Bahamas – or somewhere tropical. (I actually don’t like to travel – it’s really out of my comfort zone!)

Listen, read, or watch to learn? Watch. I’m a very visual learner.

A favorite Bible character? David. A man after God’s own heart. His life is a good reminder that even bad choices can lead to repentance and a restored relationship. God looks at the heart.

3 Things that bring peace to your life and/or help you relax? Reading, my toes in the warm sand at the beach, and being by water.

Thank you so much, Karen, for your service at SGC and for sharing your heart with us!

Ladies, love is in the air this month! Above all, may you become more aware and relish the deep, deep, immeasurable love the Father has towards YOU - as it moves you to become more like Jesus.  

Marie Schrock

By Julie Overholt

Hi ladies!

It’s time to pull up a chair as we enjoy getting to know another special lady at SGC: 

Marie Schrock and her husband, Bob, have been attending Sugar Grove Church for 36 years. They wanted to find their own church as a married couple and found SGC to be a place that shared their beliefs and had a large number of young adults attending – many of  which are still their best friends today. Their children, Mandi (Paulo) Juarez, and Matt (Abby) Schrock grew up at SGC and continue to attend SGC as well. Bob and Marie have been blessed with one grandson (who is, of course, the greatest!), Kai Matthew Juarez, who is a year-and-a-half old.

Marie served in various areas of children’s ministries as her children grew through them: Nursery, AWANA, Sunday School, and youth group.  She served on the Phase One Decorating Team and has also been a greeter for our First Impressions ministry. She supports her husband as a Connect Group leader and Elder Board chairman.

Bob and Marie have been married for thirty-nine years and have known each other since childhood. Their families were acquaintances when Marie and Bob were children, then the two of them re-met as teenagers, as their fathers worked together at DJ Construction. “My husband is a saint. He puts up with me! And loves me unconditionally. We love to laugh at ourselves.”

Marie originally grew up in Millersburg, IN (Fairfield HS). “I loved my childhood, growing up in a small town. We didn’t have a lot, but life was simple and fun. I learned values from my parents including working hard and being respectful and kind to others. My parents influenced me greatly.” Marie’s father passed away unexpectedly when Bob was in grad school and he and Marie were living in West Lafayette ( 2 ½ hours away). Her mother became a widow at the age of fifty. It was a very difficult time for Marie, and, because of the loss, they moved back to the area to be closer to family after Bob finished his schooling. God led them to SGC and Bob to his family business a few years later. 

After returning to Elkhart, Marie worked in a ladies’ dress shop, and, after the kids were born, was blessed to be able to stay at home to raise them. She later returned to the workforce to work in the kitchen at Model School in Goshen for five years. “For those who know me well, no I didn’t cook! I served, washed dishes, and cleaned up.” She currently has her favorite job of all – babysitting for her grandson, Kai!

Marie grew up going to church and loved Jesus, but really didn’t understand or grasp how one became saved until she went with a friend to her junior high youth group and heard the gospel communicated clearly. “I’ve always said that the Lord has to have a sense of humor to be so patient with me!” Psalm 46:10, “Be still and know that I am God.” is a favorite verse that Bob and Marie share. “Clayton and Kay Bjurstrom wrote that verse on a plaque and brought it to us in the hospital when Mandi was born prematurely. It still reminds me today to be patient and trust the One who is in control.”

When I asked Marie what some of her hobbies and passions are, she said that she is passionate about her family and being with the people she loves. Her birthday is on the Fourth of July, and her mother, who is now eighty-seven years old, still hosts a cookout and family get-together as well as all of the holiday gatherings. “My hobby has been my horses. I had five at one time, but only Sienna remains, and she’s not rideable anymore. I also board a horse for a friend, so I still take care of two. “ She loves interior decorating and remodeling homes. Seeing it all come together when finished is a very rewarding experience for her!

Marie's favorite season is definitely summer, stating that she hates to be cold! She also enjoys New Year’s Day, since that was her father’s birthday. “He’s been gone for thirty-seven years and I still miss him.” Something you may not know about Marie is that she is a vegetarian (sort of), and, when she turned fifty years of age, her eyes changed color from green to blue!

Slapstick comedy will make her laugh as well as when they show bloopers at the end of a show or movie. “I still love the old Carol Burnett show. Also, Kai is so funny and makes me laugh everyday! Bob is funny, too, and laughs at himself. I laugh with him.” :)

Quick questions:

Three words to describe yourself: Sensitive, hard-working, and loyal.

Shy or outgoing? Shy, until I get to know someone. Big crowds are overwhelming to me.

Tomboy or princess? Tomboy, although I do like to dress nice once in awhile.

Coffee or tea? Tea.

Oceanside or mountainside? Oceanside, but I do think the mountains are beautiful.

The perfect meal? Potato chips and iced tea! I would have them at every meal.

Worst food ever? Liver.

Morning person or night owl? Definitely a night owl! But, I have to get up early for horse chores and babysitting.

I’d love to travel to: I don’t particularly like to travel. But, I look forward to our one annual get-away to Grand Cayman.

Favorite Bible character? Mary. This time of year, I’m reminded and amazed at the level of trust in God that she had to have.

Three activities/things that bring peace to your life and/or help you relax? Unfortunately I don’t get to relax much. But, a chair on a quiet beach 1,500 miles from here helps. At home in the evening, it’s a bag of potato chips while watching HGTV or a good movie.

Thank you Marie, for sharing your heart and glimpses into your life. May He continue to bless you and your family, and thank you for all of the faithful serving you have done in your long-term attendance at SGC!

 

We are heading into the coldest month(s) of the year. I’m going to take a chance and say that there are others who would join Marie in saying they don’t enjoy the cold?! :) During these often dreary days when we will begin to “Think Spring," may joy, hope, and His grace shine brightly within your hearts.